At 58, Mother, Wife, and Grandmother Achieves Master’s Degree with Distinction

Posted on September 25, 2024

After years of setbacks, Alidah Kekana has achieved her dream of higher education, having graduated with a master’s degree in Nursing with distinction – at the age of 58.

University of Pretoria (UP) graduate Alidah Kekana has achieved what many might deem impossible: obtaining a master’s degree with distinction at the age of 58. Education may not have been an easily accessible path for the nursing graduate, yet it was a passion that she had carried with her throughout her life.

Kekana, who grew up in the rural village of Moletlane, Zebediela in Limpopo, faced several challenges that delayed her education. “Back then, it was commonly believed that girls didn’t need education,” she recalls.

Financial difficulties compelled her to take breaks from school, with the result that she only finished high school at the age of 22. Despite these setbacks, her love of learning never waned. It wasn’t until 2015, when Kekana began working at UP as a nurse clinician, that the doors to higher education opened for her.

The decision to return to school came when her youngest daughter started university, and Kekana saw an opportunity for them to embark on an academic journey together. “I decided to join her as her study partner,” she says, describing how they motivated each other.

Kekana had tried pursuing her studies previously, but financial constraints had held her back. With the University covering her tuition, she seized the moment. In 2019, she obtained a Bachelor’s degree in Nursing Education and Administration, but the COVID-19 pandemic delayed her plans to continue her studies. In 2022, she resumed her academic journey, completing her master’s degree.

Throughout her time at UP, Kekana worked as a nurse clinician, providing primary healthcare services and educating students on sexual and reproductive health. She has been part of the UP community for nearly nine years, ensuring the well-being of students. “A healthy body and mind are essential for students to succeed in their studies, and I’m proud to be part of that support system,” she says.

Returning to school was not without its challenges. Kekana had to balance her roles as a wife, mother and grandmother while studying. “Life doesn’t stop just because you’re a student,” she notes.

Time management became crucial, as she juggled family responsibilities with her studies. One of her biggest struggles was adapting to new technology. Moving from pen and paper to digital platforms was overwhelming, especially when she lost hours of work due to not saving documents. Despite these setbacks, she remained focused on her goal.

There were moments when Kekana doubted herself, but the support of her supervisor, Nombulelo Sepeng, kept her going. She also found solace in the community of fellow master’s students. “Having a strong, positive relationship with my supervisor made a huge difference,” she says.

Graduating with distinction is a remarkable achievement. When asked what contributed to her success, Kekana emphasises the importance of hard work, determination and a strong support system. She recalls a particularly proud moment when her supervisor told her, "I enjoy reading your work." That simple affirmation gave her the confidence to continue pushing for excellence.

Kekana’s journey has not only transformed her perspective on education but has also reinforced her belief in the power of perseverance. She has learned that once she sets her mind to something, she is fully committed to seeing it through.

Balancing family life while pursuing her degree was made possible with the support of her loved ones. Kekana’s husband ensured she was well taken care of, preparing meals and providing emotional support, while her daughter helped her navigate technology challenges. Even though she couldn’t always be available for her grandchildren, they worked around her studies to make the best of their time together. “My family played an instrumental role,” she says.

Now that she has achieved this incredible milestone, Kekana looks forward to the future. She hopes to transition into lecturing, as she has always had a passion for teaching. Already involved in educating students on sexual and reproductive health, she hosts live question-and-answer sessions on Instagram, covering topics like contraceptives, menstrual health and HIV/AIDS.

For Kekana, the message is clear: “It’s never too late! Age is just a number, and you should never let it hold you back from chasing your dreams."

She hopes her story will inspire others to pursue their goals, no matter how daunting they may seem.

“With determination, time management and hard work, anything is achievable. The only obstacle standing between you and your dreams is you.”

- Author Angela Kapato

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