For Kayla Jacobs, Youth Month is a chance to celebrate diversity and promote inclusivity. “It’s a time to foster dialogue, understanding and unity among young people,” says Jacobs, who chats more about the significance of Youth Month and her role as Vice-Chair of the University’s queer society, UP&Out.

Meet Vice-Chair of UP&Out Kayla Jacobs, who offers insight into her role at the queer society and what Youth Month means to her.

Tell us a bit about yourself.

I am 21 years old and my pronouns are she/they. I am pursuing a BA general with a major in Psychology at UP. I am the Secretary/Vice-Chair of UP&Out, UP’s queer society. I work as a teaching assistant, as a pet sitter and as a tutor. My interests include dog training, playing guitar and video-gaming.

What was your childhood like?

In was raised in Randburg by my mom. My dad wasn’t in the picture much. I was a fairly well-rounded student at primary school: I played netball, sang in the school choir and excelled academically. However, I was bullied in Grade 5, which seriously harmed my self-esteem. I was able to turn that experience around in Grade 7, when I made the top 10 in my grade and became head of the choir.

I didn’t realise it then, but I had a crush on my best friend at primary school. I came out, as I realised that I had never had a serious crush on a boy before. I started dating my current girlfriend of three years when I was in Grade 11. I graduated from high school with seven As – something I am extremely proud of. I also went to the matric dance in a suit – I was the only woman with a suit on at a very conservative school. My girlfriend was there with me. I was the only open lesbian at the school.

I had a rough matric year as it was the start of the COVID-19 pandemic. Everything went online and my girlfriend and I had to have a long-distance relationship. I struggled a lot with my mental health. But there was light at the end of the tunnel with the end of school classes, and when I could see my girlfriend again. The following year, we both started university at UP.

What does your work entail and how long have you been at UP?

This is my last year at UP. I am in my third year. I work as a teaching assistant in UP’s Psychology Department. As Secretary/Vice-Chair of UP&Out, my main role is to help with the organisation’s administration, which includes assisting with event planning, monitoring emails and attending as many events as possible. I can’t call myself a leader because everyone on UP&Out's Executive Committee works together to make things happen. I believe I am a member of the best squad.

What is the best career advice you’ve ever received? 

That I don’t have to have everything sorted out too soon. I have a tendency to want everything figured out right now. But knowing that other individuals don't know what they want to do and can connect to me, makes me feel more comfortable.

What is your favourite quote?

“Hold space for yourself.” When you hold space for yourself, you create a place to check in, to see where you are right now, realign yourself with the things that truly serve you.

What does Youth Month mean to you?

Youth Month holds deep significance as it represents the bravery, resilience and unwavering spirit of the South African youth who fought against apartheid. It serves as a reminder of the sacrifices made by previous generations, whose activism and determination paved the way for the freedom and opportunities we enjoy today.

Youth Month is a time to reflect on the struggles and triumphs of the past, and to honour the young heroes who took a stand for justice and equality. Their courage inspires me to be an active participant in shaping a better future for our nation. It is a reminder of the power that lies within youth to effect positive change. It highlights the importance of education, empowerment and engagement for young people, encouraging us to use our voices, talents and skills to address the challenges we face. It serves as a call to action for all young South Africans to be catalysts for progress and to contribute meaningfully to our communities.

This month signifies an opportunity to celebrate our diversity and promote inclusivity. It is a time to foster dialogue, understanding and unity among young people from different backgrounds, cultures and perspectives. It reminds us that our shared experiences and common goals can bridge divides and create a stronger, more harmonious society. Ultimately, Youth Month is a reminder that youth are not just the leaders of tomorrow, but also the leaders of today. It is a time to embrace our responsibilities, harness our potential and work together to build a brighter future for all South Africans.

Do you have any advice for youth?

Keep going and keep hoping. It may appear difficult at the time, but remember that you are a product of your past hardships, and you can prevail. You’ve got this.